In a heartfelt and revealing series of posts on social media, Nigerian singer Euphemia Ekumah, better known as GoodGirl LA, has shared her deeply personal struggle with depression, the pain of isolation, and the hurtful words she received from those closest to her—including her own parents. The “Bless Me” singer, who has kept a low profile in recent months, opened up about her journey, inspiring many young Nigerians who are facing similar challenges.
Her story is a powerful reminder of the importance of mental health, self-belief, and staying true to oneself, even in the face of harsh criticism.
GoodGirl LA explained that she went through a period of unavoidable isolation and emotional pain. Instead of giving up, she chose to use this difficult time as an opportunity for growth.
“I had periods of unavoidable isolation and just shit, so I charged it. I focused on self-mastery and transmutation, all the while saying no to certain opportunities that nggas would kill for because I stand for something.”
She revealed that while many artists were desperate for the kind of offers she received, she turned them down because she did not want to compromise her values.
“I know what I want and where I’m going, and I won’t sell my soul just to belong and keep up appearances,” she wrote.
Judgment from Friends and Family
The singer’s decision to stay true to herself did not come without a cost. She faced judgment and rejection from people she thought were her friends.
“In that period, my ‘friends’ started to look down on me and pretty much just shenked me. Bruh, even my own parents did too and called me a failure.”
The words from her parents, in particular, left a deep wound. “It changed my view on what’s really important,” she admitted.
GoodGirl LA’s experience highlights how mental health struggles are often misunderstood, even by those who are supposed to offer the most support.
Mental Health Stigma in Nigeria
Mental health remains a taboo subject in many Nigerian homes and communities. Young people, especially those in the creative industry, often face immense pressure to succeed.
When they struggle, they are sometimes labeled as “failures” or “crazy,” making it even harder to seek help.
GoodGirl LA’s openness about her depression is a brave step towards breaking the silence and stigma around mental health in Nigeria. Her story encourages others to speak up and seek support, rather than suffer in silence.
Despite the challenges, GoodGirl LA found strength in her music and her mission to inspire others. She made it clear that her priority is not fame or popularity, but making a positive impact through her art.
“The cheers and boos aren’t what any of this is about. It’s really all about art, touching my Gs and the world…”
She is determined to use her platform to spread hope and positivity, reminding her fans that it’s okay to go through tough times and that true success comes from staying true to oneself.
This powerful message from the singer serves as an inspiration to anyone facing adversity. It reminds us that our value is not determined by the opinions of others, but by our own courage and authenticity.
A Message of Hope and Resilience
At just 28 years old, GoodGirl LA is proof that even the toughest challenges can be overcome with determination and self-belief.
Her journey is a beacon of hope for young Nigerians who are struggling with mental health, family pressure, or societal expectations.
By sharing her story, GoodGirl LA is helping to change the conversation around mental health in Nigeria. She is encouraging others to seek help, support one another, and never give up on their dreams—no matter what others may say.
Quote of the Day
“The world may call you crazy or a failure, but only you can define your worth. Stay true to yourself, and let your light shine even in the darkest times.”
— GoodGirl LA
GoodGirl LA’s story is a powerful reminder that mental health matters, and that the support of loved ones can make all the difference. Her courage in speaking out is inspiring a new generation to embrace their struggles, seek help, and stay true to themselves. Let’s all remember: You are not alone, and your story is worth telling.
